10 Reasons kung Bakit Ka Iniiwan: Kapalit-palit Ba'ko Edition
Loving someone who wouldn't judge you and are comfortable around you, is like a haven safe, wide open arms you could jump in any second waiting for a warm embrace.
Love is in the air, they said. Falling in love nowadays takes only couple of minutes, hours or days.
Some are in deep in love with their partner, putting your trust in your partner without a single visible stain of doubt because of the love you pour towards your partner.
Some weren't able to get themselves to trust their partners that easily scared that they might get hurt and their partners walk away from them.
One day, you'll wake up on your bed scrubbing your eyes til your vision were back in normal. Your eyes went to the other side of your bed, suddenly sadness enveloped your entire body. Tears starting to pour and all the memories fogging your mind.
You feel like your head is going to explode, veins popping visible to sight, clear as crystal. You wanted to get your sanity back but the memories and all the unanswered questions won't just leave you that easily, it's cried for justice, mourning for getting your hear broken.
Having a partner who walk away from your relatioship is a different level of pain. It is like there is something missing inside of you.
This 10 Reasons why a partners walking out in a relationships are just few and some of the idea to anwers your questions.
1. No time
In a relationship, time is important. Why? Because spending time with your partner or boyfriend or girlfriend not only strengthen your relationships, you were growing together, sharing each other thoughts and knowing the person's more.
2. No more Sparks
What makes a person's drive him or her to love you more each day, is that you gave him or her a reason or two, maybe because your promises was promising and you gave him or her something to hold on.
No longer spark in relationship will end to separation of couple. No matter how long your relatioship are, there must be always spark. Spark in relationship will help to hold your relationship together.
3. No Freedom
Abstained from things or habits you're usually do. If you miss your freedom because of your relatioship, you cannot call it a healthy relationship. You're supposed to enjoy and cherish every single moment of your life with your partner.
Come to thing of it, have you ever restricted them from their hobbies just because the idea of it doesn't follow your taste?
Maybe yes or maybe no having hard time figuring things out. You know, let them have their alone time and stop being a selfish.
4. Found someone better
This is absolutely one of the factor causing a relationships to stumble upon.
There are always better than us out there, you and I are no exception. Let's be honest here! Looks is important asset, you must atleast try some regime, nowadays beauty products are available out there.
There's nothing wrong being an enthusiast of beauty products, it's actually marketed out there for you not just to look pretty but to boost your confidence, giving you outstanding results.
5. The World Against us
The inexplicable feelings when your friends or family doesn't seem to support you , especialy when you ain't straight. Like me, I've been there before family was cool about me being gay. But having same gender relationship is another issue. To make the story short, I came from a broken family.
My dad wasn't cool about me being like this, I never cross dress though. Til we ended up having argument and the rest was history. And it's been like 5 years, I was like 15 years old that time.
Now, I'm 21, and my relationship with my father was far away better unlike before, we compromised. I told him in the form of message, every single thing about me and how he really meant alot to me and doesn't want to leave the issue hanging.
There's still some mean people out there trying to crumple down your relatioship, ain't matter wether you're straight as a pole or whatever is your gender preference.
That's why some relatioships didn't last long.
6. Pride
This factor would probably ruin your relatioship. Of course we always wanted to be the intelligent one, and trying to outsmart the other.
Barking at him or her just to start an argument and doesn't want to admit your mistakes despite being caught red-handed.
7. Jealousy
In relatioship, Jealousy is just a normal reaction of a person's whose secretly envy or they just simply wants your extra attention.
Jealousy is not bad honestly, not until the concepts of being jealous alot will put you in trouble.
8. Pastime Relationship
If you studied Statistics you might understand the probability, the probability of you having a happy relatioship is zero.
You will never have a genuine and a happy relatioship if the person you truly love were not feeling the same level of affection you have towards him or her.
You'll notice the signs yourself. He was no longer showing interest on you,cold treatment, or you're just simple a mere s*x toy for him or her to satisfy and feed his or her dirty fantasy.
9. Ditches
Ditching with this new guy you just met or meeting your ex without your man or woman knowing pertaining to it. Of course he or she would get upset. He/she doesn't know what you two were doing all the time when you're hanging out with him/her, where were you during those meeting. It feels like your cheating to him/her.
10. Left behind without apparent reason
In short, he/she disappeared without leaving a mark. That also has a risk in your mental health that might result depression. You were left behind, without bidding his/her goodbye, without telling you anything why he/she walk away.
Ditching with this new guy you just met or meeting your ex without your man or woman knowing pertaining to it. Of course he or she would get upset. He/she doesn't know what you two were doing all the time when you're hanging out with him/her, where were you during those meeting. It feels like your cheating to him/her.
10. Left behind without apparent reason
In short, he/she disappeared without leaving a mark. That also has a risk in your mental health that might result depression. You were left behind, without bidding his/her goodbye, without telling you anything why he/she walk away.
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